okay, so I love this kind of scene. The poor boy - hanging by his arms, straining mightily to keep from being penetrated, and finally - exhausted - collapsing onto the dildo, accepting that there is simply no option but to let himself be impaled by it.
One of the reasons I like this sort of thing, I think, is that I can enjoy it both ways. Firstly - as a submissive to a female - I see myself as the guy strung up, the result of - say - losing a bet with my girlfriend and letting her bind me to this cross. And, on the other hand - as a top or dominant - it makes me (super) hard to think about forcing my boyfriend onto this thing and watching him struggle and strain, slowly succumbing to the inevitable penetration.
So … I’m the top when I see this as a male/male scene, and I’m the submissive hanging on the cross when it’s male/female. So many ways to enjoy! Ain’t life fucking glorious?